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Submitted by Ed on Tue, 03/12/2013 - 13:43 http://hardeybordercollies.com/id91.html
What to feed waterfowl Orange Tue, 03/12/2013 - 18:23 Thanks for the links. The second one is easy: I feed them rolled oats, which is on the recommended list. They only get a little bread, and it's not white bread. They get whole wheat or 7-grain bread or something like that. And that is just a treat, not a diet. It will take a few minutes to go through the arguments of the first file. I can see errors already, but have to carefully read all of it.
LATER: The "hardeybordercollies.com" web page "Ten Reasons Why You Should Not Feed Wild Waterfowl & Canada Geese" is a good example of deceptive and untrue propaganda from what I call "Nature Nazis" โ people who have extreme views of wildlife and try to force their opinions on others. Here is the web page: http://hardeybordercollies.com/id91.html I'll go through it point by point:
* orange@orange-papers.info * * AA and Recovery Cult Debunking * * http://www.Orange-Papers.org/ * * http://www.Orange-Papers.org/forum * * ** "The thinking man must oppose all cruel customs no matter how ** deeply rooted in tradition or surrounded by a halo. We need a ** boundless ethic which will include the animals also." ** == Albert Schweitzer, physician/Nobel Laureate. * ** We have enslaved the rest of the animal creation, and have treated ** our distant cousins in fur and feathers so badly that beyond doubt, ** if they were able to formulate a religion, they would depict the ** Devil in human form. ** == William Ralph Inge ![]()
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Date: Thu, March 14, 2013 12:38 am (Answered 15 March 2013) Terrance, It is me again,(don't know if you remember.) Well I am much better. Haven't had a drop in 6 months or so, and have no plans to. :) Feels great. I just wanted to say I am so happy you are still at it. I love your views, pictures of the geese, I honestly have always loved hippies. I'm originally from Eugene, ORE, what can I say. :) I live above a pond and have geese around here. Love watching them and think of you while watching them. You have a STRONG spirit. I have told many professionals about your site, including therapists, psychiatrists, and professor's. Some thought whoa he's angry, however some were very interested. I think you SHOULD start the other site about corporations. Who knows maybe it will start a revolution here in the states. :) God knows we need one.Take care of yourself, Jennifer
Date: Thu, March 14, 2013 12:44 am (Answered 15 March 2013) Hey Orange could you please fix that last email I sent it got all jumbled when it was sent. :) I'm on a Kindle maybe that's why. I don't know....
Take care, Hello Jennifer, Thank you for the letter and all of the compliments. Yes, I remember you. I'm glad to hear that you are doing well. Congratulations. That's great news. And your letter wasn't too disorganized. I know how hard it is to type into those little text boxes on web pages and try to get things right with basically no text editing or formatting tools. I prefer to edit files on my own computer and then upload the finished file to a web page, if at all possible. Trying to tell a good story in those small boxes on a Facebook page is frustrating. Have a good day now, and a good life. == Orange
* orange@orange-papers.info * * AA and Recovery Cult Debunking * * http://www.Orange-Papers.org/ * ** As I see it, every day you do one of two things: ** build health or produce disease in yourself. ** == Adelle Davis ![]()
Date: Thu, March 14, 2013 5:22 am (Answered 14 March 2013) I've just spent about 3 hours reading your page, which just completely reinforced what I already thought of AA: that it is a cult of self flagellating religious nuts, that i want nothing to do with. I'm on my ipad, so maybe I'm missing something, but I never managed to find any info about your opinion on what a positive, healthy recovery would look like (outside of the 5% or so who achieve a spontaneous one). I'd love to see more info on that. I REALLY don't need much convincing about AA; my dad died of cirrhosis when I was 10, 18 years ago. He was 48, and a seasoned alumni of AA and several other programs, all similar: abstain completely or die, one slip makes you a bad person, might as well just give up until you are ready to start over....that sort of thing. Part of that 95% failure rate. I fear suffering the same fate every day, although I'm not suffering the ill consequences of drinking....yet. I even get into the "am I just in denial?" mindset on a regular basis. I fear that I won't know when I finally cross the line, I fear that my only option will be to become religious (I'm NOT) in order to get a support system or a framework for help, if i realize its not worth it to drink. I'm not trying to be critical/criticize in a negative sense, but rather looking for some information on something other than on what I already know AA to be...a pile of crap. As you say over and over....most people aren't going to stop themselves, most of us aren't going to just yank ourselves up by our own bootstraps and decide enough is enough. So what IS there for those of us who will just drink more when we feel bad, and call up a friend who is okay with that to hang out with that day? Because I see that in myself. It scares me. It scares me because it could happen on a regular basis pretty easily. I, personally, would like help of a different variety than what is available out there, if and when I decide I need it. I'd love to see you add more of that! I know that most people take a lot of convincing to let go of their culturally-ingrained idea of AA, but for those of us who are convinced....now what? I actually just watched a television show the other day where a guy had two...TWO...sips of champagne and that was played out to the viewer as a huge lapse in character on his part...and then he went to an AA meeting and said he had only been sober for 5 hours and that was supposed to be touching for the viewer. PLEASE. HE WAS NEVER NOT SOBER, and he never failed morally. I'm really glad I stumbled upon this site because it articulates a lot of what I have felt about recovery programs.... thank you for that. Someone had to say it, no? 90% of them are malarkey snake oil sales for people who just want help, and the biggest moral failing isn't a relapse on the addicts part but rather a failure on the part of our society to accept that people are human, and that the (only legal) drug we are peddling on every corner is addictive. I just wish you had more answers I suppose... heheh. Maybe you should start a cult, call it Drinkers Confidential, and solve all your money problems, right? I understand no one has the answers :) Sent from my iPad
Date: Thu, March 14, 2013 5:27 am (Answered 14 March 2013) Sorry to email bomb you, but after my last message I went back to the home page and scrolled to my right (as i said im on my ipad... apparently ive got it quite zoomed in) and found your "solution" stuff. I'm sorry for questioning, I haven't read it yet, but please disregard my earlier questions, although the THANK YOU part and other stuff still stands. :) Sent from my iPad
Date: Thu, March 14, 2013 5:50 am (Answered 14 March 2013) Hi again, I also wanted to tell you that I had to just laugh at the guy who said "i don't need statics to know that my life is better." He reminds me of the people who say "I don't need your so-called "facts" you "intellectual" SNOB!" to me regularly. My degree is in sociology but my undergrad favorite was statistics; I return for graduate school with a focus in stats in May. I hear there is a lot of money to be made by female statisticians, and I'm good at it :) I will NEVER, never understand those who say statistics don't matter, or even that statistics can lie. PEOPLE can manipulate statistics, to be deceiving (it is quite simple, on TV every day!) but pure numbers are real and can't lie, because they aren't alive, aren't subjective, as people are, and are based on universal fact. So these people who keep telling you that your statistics don't matter because they were the one in a million who were "saved" and that you are killing people.... ignore them. Take heart, Fellow human. You are doing the right thing. The truth is never wrong to speak. And you know you are speaking truth because you have facts on your side, not "feelings" or "beliefs." You know for sure. You definitely have my respect. You're definitely not in the "opinion" section considering your documentation and facts. Sent from my iPad Hello Crystal, Thank you for the letters and the compliments. You actually brought up an interesting question in your first letter: "what a positive, healthy recovery would look like." I think you meant what a good recovery program would look like, but at first I took it the other way, and wondered what a description of a good sober lifestyle would look like. And I thought, "Hmmm... that's difficult, because they are all different. That is, someone who stops killing himself with alcohol and finds something else to do with his life could do anything: Go back to college, or resume a career, or get married and have kids, or even go to the beach and lay in the sun and feed the goslings."
About ways to recover, yes, I trust that you found:
How did you get to where you are? That second list includes Moderation Management. I noticed your remark about the extremists who insist that absolute abstinence is the only way. The worst part is teaching the idea of powerlessness, and that you will totally relapse if you have one drink. That becomes a self-fullfilling prophesy with many people. That is a really bad teaching and does a lot of harm. What SMART teaches is: If you have a drink, or go to a party and get buzzed one night, then that is a "lapse", not a "relapse". And the thing to do is just stop drinking again. When you fall off of the horse, just climb back up on the horse and ride it some more. Don't continue to drink and make a lapse into a full-blown relapse. There is also HAMS and the Harm Reduction Network. Dr. Peter Ferentzy has been sending me a bunch of news about what they are doing in Canada, and I've been mirroring it here. I find that a very practical approach, because they have a good chance of helping people who will just walk away if you start talking about total abstinence. And the logic is good: If you can't get them to stop their addiction, at least reduce the harm done. We don't really need all of the junkies also becoming expensive AIDS patients. Now to clarify, some people can drink moderately, and some can't. It all depends on the individual person. Many years ago, way back in 1978, the famous government think tank, the Rand Corporation, found that the successful people who had stopped drinking self-destructively were evenly split between total abstinence and tapering off into moderate, controlled, drinking. So total abstinence is not the only way. It all depends on the individual person. Of course, the A.A. true believers flipped out when the Rand Corporation released that report. (More on that here.) Now I'm not recommending that anybody drink alcohol. I'm just saying that one drink does not necessarily end all recovery and instantly readdict all alcoholics. Some yes, some no. Personally, I'm one of those people who has to 100% avoid alcohol, or I slide back down that slippery slope very quickly. But that's okay, because I'm tired of being sick from alcohol anyway. No big loss. I already got my lifetime quota of that kind of suffering. I don't need any more of that. I certainly don't want to force my style of recovery onto other people. Whatever works. Different strokes for different folks. About the statistics, I find that the people who refuse to hear the numbers, and don't tell the truth about the numbers, are those people who prefer to live in a fairy tale rather than in the real world. They really don't want to know the truth. And yes, I've heard the accusations and complaints about bad statistics so many times. I know what deceptive manipulations can be done with statistics. I even have Darrell Huff's classic book How To Lie With Statistics listed in the bibliography, and I use some of his examples and techniques in the web page about Propaganda and Debating Techniques.
And I know about the famous quote that is attributed to both the British Prime Minister Desraeli and to Mark Twain, "There are three kinds of lies: Little white lies, damn lies, and statistics." I also like this quote:
Yes, not all numbers are lies. And as you well know, a good statistician uses numbers to get at the truth, not to decieve and fool people and perpetrate a fraud.
Unfortunately, A.A. uses numbers to perpetrate a fraud. All of their claimed success rates
are untrue, and so wrong that they aren't even in the right ballpark. It isn't a matter of a
small mistake, it's a matter of a huge lie. I covered much of that here: And finally, you really don't have to go down the same road as your father did. Yes, it is very good to be wary, as there does seem to be a genetic component to alcohol addiction in about half of the cases. But just because you have a gene that makes you more inclined to get addicted to alcohol doesn't mean that you have to do it. And even if you do get addicted, like I did, and just like how Dad and Grandma did, you can just get unaddicted, like I did (and they didn't). Have a good day now, and a good life. == Orange
* orange@orange-papers.info * * AA and Recovery Cult Debunking * * http://www.Orange-Papers.org/ * * ** Do not put your faith in what statistics say until you have ** carefully considered what they do not say. ** == William W. Watt ** (Facts are stubborn things, but statistics are more pliable.) * ** Wouldn't it be terrible if I quoted some reliable statistics ** which prove that more people are driven insane through ** religious hysteria than by drinking alcohol? ** == W. C. Fields ![]()
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Date: Fri, March 15, 2013 4:23 am (Answered 18 March 2013)
The World Health Organization in the Mental Health section of its website provides:
"Evidence-based recommendations for management of alcohol use disorders in non-specialized health settings"Here, the WHO asks the question:
"Should non-specialist health care providers refer alcohol dependent patients and their family members to mutual help groups such as AA?"
In its reply to the question the WHO evaluates the "Balance of benefits versus harms". The following is the WHO's opinion:
"As these groups are outside the treatment system they are known to sometimes develop "cult" like behaviours. They can also be very against the use of medications. There is the potential for harm."
Weirdly in its Final Recommendations the WHO states:
"Non-specialist health care workers should be encouraged to familiarise themselves with locally available mutual help groups (such as AA), and they should encourage the alcohol dependent patient to engage with such a group."
How can the WHO state that AA is cult like, anti-medication with the potential for harm and then recommend that alcoholics be encouraged to attend AA? A more than slightly mixed message.
Still, when the world Health Organization recognizes AA as "cult" like that really is a huge step forward in changing the treatment system.
Source: Iamnotastatistic Hello iamnotastatistic, Thanks for all of the information. I can only agree. Alas, I think that even WHO is suffering from a certain kind of informational cowardice that is common to bureaucracies. In the interests of "fair and balanced coverage", so that they can't be accused of bias, they just have to say good things about both sides. It makes me think of a priest saying,
"The purpose of Christianity is to help you to live a good life and get into Heaven. However, in the interest of fairness, I have to say that Satan also offers a very attractive package of benefits."
Date: Fri, March 15, 2013 5:47 am (Answered 18 March 2013)
Hi Orange, I know that you've thoroughly dealt with the subject of the 100 Men Corporation so maybe you've already dealt with this but I thought these quotes were interesting:
"How we got through the summer of 1939, I'll never quite know. Hank P. had to get a job. The faithful Ruth accepted shares in the defunct book company as pay."
Why does Wilson refer to the shares given to Ruth Hock as "shares in the defunct book company"? Wilson couldn't have been referring to shares in Works Publishing Co. since it wasn't incorporated until June 1940. In fact, Works Publishing only existed in Wilson's head during the summer of 1939. And, Works Publishing could never have been described as defunct โ it came into existence and has stayed in existence ever since โ only the name has changed. So the shares that Ruth Hock was given could only have been shares in the 100 Men Corporation. Otherwise there is no logical reason to refer to shares in Works Publishing as "shares in the defunct book company" since Works Publishing was never defunct. It must have been tough for Wilson to keep track of all the lies. Ah, good catch. I must have read that text a few dozen times, and yet the word "defunct" somehow slipped by without me connecting the dots. I knew that Ruth Hock had to be getting stock in the 100 Men Corporation because "Works Publishing, Inc." did not exist, and wouldn't exist for another year.
It was April, 1939. Henry, absolutely broke, was trying to get work. Ruth, living at home, was given meaningless stock certificates in the defunct Works Publishing as pay. She cheerfully accepted these and never slackened her efforts. All of us were going into debt just for living expenses. But Bill wrote that the publishing company (the 100 Men Corporation) was already "defunct" in April of 1939 when they were writing the Big Book? So Bill was inadvertently admitting that there was another publishing company in existence before Works Publishing, which is one of the most closely-guarded secrets in A.A. history. Even though Bill Wilson called the defunct publishing company "Works Publishing" in his falsified history, the defunct company could not possibly be Works Publishing because Works Publishing didn't come into existence until a year later. Ah yes. Good catch. Also, Wilson wrote in Alcoholics Anonymous comes of Age:
"Four hundred shares of stock [Bill's & Hank's] had never been issued and could not be issued, under our original agreement, until the cash subscribers had received all their money back." AAcoA pg 188. But Wilson also wrote:
"Meanwhile, some of the stockholders in the book company,Works Publishing, began to get restive. All the book profits, they complained, were going for A.A. work in the office. When, if ever, were they going to get their money back? We also saw that the book "Alcoholics Anonymous" should now become the property of A.A. as a whole. At the moment [1940], it was owned one-third by the 49 subscribers, one-third by my friend Hank P., and the remainder by me.
How, if the shares were never issued, did Bill and Hank "donate" shares that "we had taken for services rendered" to the Alcoholic Foundation? One can't donate something that "had never been issued and could not be issued". Also, Wilson states that the shares couldn't have been issued until "the cash subscribers had received all their money back" in AAcoA. But in the Service Manual Wilson states that he and Hank P. donated their shares to the Alcoholic Foundation before the subscribers were paid back. What a mess of lies and contradictions! Yes. Finally, in AAcoA Wilson writes:
"Ruth had no time to keep books, and I did not know how." How was Wilson, as a self proclaimed "stockbroker"(which we know he wasn't) and business analyst who traveled the country evaluating companies, unable to keep books? How did Wilson not know the basics of accounting? If Wilson wasn't able to keep books then he wouldn't have known how to analyze or evaluate them either? So, how did Wilson evaluate or analyze a company if he couldn't analyze or evaluate their books? He must have been the suckiest business analyst ever. Or was he just trying to distance himself from the financial irregularities by claiming that since he didn't know how to keep books and didn't keep the books then he wasn't to blame for the missing money? Yes, I think the later. I think that Bill Wilson was familiar enough with the laws of stocks to know that he was also engaged in felony securities fraud. He definitely wanted to distance himself from that, and pretend that somebody else did it.
Thanks Orange
Date: Fri, March 15, 2013 12:00 pm (Answered 18 March 2013)
Hello again Terrance, The threats of death to the alcoholic or AA member in AA literature are alarming and disgusting. Why does AA have to threaten its members with death? Here's a list that I've put together: some are direct and explicit, some are implicit, some are subtle โ all contain the same message: Do it the AA way or die! I've covered all of the Big Book except for the personal stories, the 12&12, The AA Service Manual and the Traditions pamphlet.There are 56 examples in this list. I wonder how many death threats there are in total in all AA literature? Thanks
*Big Book, 4th Ed.*
*12&12*
*The A.A. Service Manual combined with Twelve Concept for World Service, 2005-2006 Edition.*
*AA Tradition โ How it developed by Bill W.*, A.A. pamphlet available at:
Yes. Thanks for the lists. Nothing like a few death threats to keep the suckers in line. Oh well, have a good day now. == Orange
* orange@orange-papers.info * * AA and Recovery Cult Debunking * * http://www.Orange-Papers.org/ * * ** "Then came that little man that we who live in this area saw so much, ** him with the kind blue eyes and white hair, Doc Silkworth. You'll ** remember that Doc said to me, "look Bill, you're preaching at these ** people too much. You've got the cart before the horse. This 'white ** flash' experience of yours scares those drunks to death. Why don't ** you put the fear of God into them first. You're always talking about ** James and The Varieties of Religious Experiences and how you have ** to deflate people before they can know God, how they must have humility. ** So, why don't you use the tool of the medical hopelessness of alcoholism ** for practically all those involved. Why don't you talk to the drunk ** about that allergy they've got and that obsession that makes them ** keep on drinking and guarantees that they will die. Maybe when you ** punch it into them hard it will deflate them enough so that they will ** find what you found." ** == Bill Wilson, speaking at the Memorial service for Dr. Bob, Nov. 15, 1952 ![]()
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