And here is my own description of what worked for me, with links
to many more lists of treatment programs and ratings of their effectiveness,
and also links to more discussions of what has worked for other people:
Consider a diagnosis of ADD or ADHD.
Also see
this letter about
how a diagnosis of "alcoholism" immediately prevents any other underlying
diagnosis like depression or ADD. The "authorities" claim that alcohol caused the mental problems,
not that the mental problems caused the drinking.