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Date: Mon, March 11, 2013 9:45 am (Answered 12 March 2013)
Peter Ferentzy, PhD
Hi again, Peter, That sounds very interesting. Alas, I'm too far away from Toronto to just pop over there for the evening. You know, the word "war" is a dead give-away of something. People who wax enthusiastic about anything described as a "war" are dangerous people. Have a good day now. == Orange
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Date: Mon, March 11, 2013 6:34 am (Answered 12 March 2013) Thank you for the Orange Papers. I've seen them a couple of times over the years I've been sober (coming up on year 12 this summer) and usually felt threatened when I did. I went to AA constantly my first few years of being sober and much of what I saw in the OP I considered angry, nasty, insulting, all that stuff you've likely seen in every pro-AA letter you receive.
What pissed me off the most was that you backed up your arguments... in
detail. So while I could be pissed at you, I couldn't argue back. Anyhoo... AA worked for me, in the beginning. Possibly in spite of the program rather than because of it. What worked was having an available group of people who shared my love of and my problems with getting obliterated on booze. Hanging out with guys who tried to stop but simply couldn't did help me... empathy really worked. But the Steps themselves felt so contrived, the slogans so repetitive like a mantra. It IS a religion, but they don't do that very well really. I now get my spiritual food (and everything else) elsewhere. Having folks around in a similar predicament was attractive and kept me out of immediate danger at the beginning. I don't get into the whys and wherefores, is it a disease, is abstinence the only way. I'm happier now than when I was getting obliterated 4-5 times a week... so, I don't do it. "KEEP IT SIMPLE", right? Do I WANT to? Sure sometimes. I wouldn't be much of an alcoholic if I didn't. I'm also a grown man and I'm capable of deciding whether or not I'm going go out to buy a case of beer and a bottle of Bushmill to chase old feelings. I don't buy the "insanity before the first drink" thing. At least not anymore. It's an excuse which does nothing but coddle to a person who won't take responsibility for their own actions. Keel on trucking! And thanks for your anger! T Hello Thomas, Thanks for the letter and the story and the compliments. I agree about the comfort and encouragement that you can get from a group of other people who are also recovering. That's one of the good things that the other recovery groups, like SMART, SOS, and WFS, also have going for them. I prefer them because they do not push nonsense like the stuff that you mentioned โ "powerless", "insane", "diseased", must "work the Steps"...
In case you don't have the list of addresses for them, here it is: Have a good day now, and a good life. == Orange
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Date: Sun, March 10, 2013 10:10 pm (Answered 12 March 2013) Dear Orange: It has been years since I last visited your incredible site. It's still incredible. I celebrated my 37th year of continuous sobriety in AA today by chairing a Sunday morning meeting at my home group. My wife of 35 years will celebrate her 37 years later this month. In the group this morning were two PhDs, four Master's degrees, six lawyers with prestigious firms, a clinical psychologist, the CEO of a large company, an ex-Marine drill sergeant, a project manager for a major firm, a software developer with 4,600 customers, a lovely former Broadway actress, a college professor, two truck drivers, three school teachers, five workers for non-profit helping agencies and a host of other men and women with spouses, families, jobs, friends galore, active social lives. They are white, black, Hispanic, Oriental. They are married or divorced or single or widowed, as young as 19, as old as 86. The average length of sobriety is 15 years, ranging from 30 days to 45 years. All these people share sobriety, perfectly clear thought processes, and the same problems anyone faces in an uncertain world. In short, they are America. To suggest that these intelligent, witty, funny, capable people have been brainwashed by a sinister cult with various insidious hidden agendas is simply laughable. We have long been aware of the sexual proclivities of our founder, Bill Wilson, and we do not excuse or condone it nor do we cover it up or minimize it. We are fully aware that, in large gatherings of alcoholics with such checkered pasts as ours, there will be sexual opportunists (both male and female), con men, shysters, and the mentally ill, amateur doctors who give inappropriate medical advice, and religious zealots that want to inject specific religious doctrines and ideas into AA meetings. The very size of AA makes it all the more susceptible to these misfits, and some groups do a better job of weeding them out than others But to suggest that AA is a "breeding ground" for perverts, quacks and religious fanatics is simply nonsense. For every "study" that shows AA to have a low recovery rate, there are countervailing studies conducted by legitimate researchers (such as NIAAA) that show very high recovery rates. For example, a 1992 NIAAA nationwide survey found that members of AA who stayed in the program had a 64% abstinence rate, and 37% of those who attended AA but dropped out maintained their sobriety. A 2008 research project on AA sobriety exposed the many methodological flaws of the negative surveys (including one by AA itself) and found that AA's actual recovery rate came close to its initial claims: 75% to 93% sobriety. One reason for these huge discrepancies is the failure of researchers to survey AAs who actually give the program a persistent effort over a long period of time (a longitudinal study). Like any other study of treatment for a medical condition, the respondent must be participating fully in the treatment to qualify for measurement. It is useless and distorting to include casual attendees and dropouts in the survey population (although AA dropouts have a surprisingly high abstinence rate). AA promises sobriety only to those who "thoroughly follow our path." No one would include diabetics or heart patients who did not follow the treatment regimen in any study of the effectiveness of treatment. Researchers who measure AA's effectiveness by the number of "attendees" miss the boat almost entirely. Nor is it fair to suggest, as some who post here do, that because they did not "like" some aspects of AA and dropped out that AA has "failed." No one likes chemotherapy either, but it often works. So does AA, like it or not. Finally, one wonders what fierce obsession drives "A. Orange" to invest hundreds of hours in maintaining a web site devoted entirely to savaging Alcoholics Anonymous. No one who pages through the reams of vitriol, distortions and outright lies would not immediately suspect that a very disturbed individual is running the anti-AA show. In our group, we routinely laugh about A. Orange, but unfortunately, the naive, the easily fooled, and the ignorant are not found in AA. They are found on A. Orange's weird rant. Hello CW, Thank you for the letter, and congratulations to you and your wife for your many years of keeping yourselves sober. Obviously, you really believe in A.A. and you allow your beliefs to color your vision of A.A.
Last, but not least, you say that you have 37 years in Alcoholics Anonymous. Wonderful. And you were talking about the A.A. sobriety rates in your remarks. Good. Then you are certainly qualified to answer these questions that no Stepper has ever answered honestly:
Oh well, have a good day now. == Orange
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Date: Sat, March 9, 2013 5:51 pm (Answered 12 March 2013) Hi there Mr. Orange, Thank you so kindly for the comment on my article 'One Step Forward โ Twelve Steps Back' on Healthy Place. (http://www.healthyplace.com/blogs/survivingmentalhealthstigma/2013/02/) It's an article I have wanted to write for about ten years, but I guess feared the retribution. The kind of retribution I assume you feel on a daily basis! haha Your Orange Papers are remarkable and have done a great deal in bringing down the powers that be of AA. I work in a treatment centre, and often hear of clients talking about the Orange Papers and I have also read most of it myself. I have wanted to write a book about AA for a long time. I'm under the working title 'Beyond the Veil of Anonymity: A Critical Analysis of Alcoholics Anonymous.' I was in fact in the group for about four years, on and off, in both NA and AA, so I speak from not only a clinical perspective but also a personal one. Anyway, just wanted to say hi and thank you for reading. It would be nice to talk sometime as we share extremely similar views. Take care, Chris Hello Chris, Thank you for the letter and all of the compliments. I really didn't know that the Orange Papers were that widely read. Well, that's encouraging. Good luck on your book. I know I will enjoy reading it. So you have a good day too now. == Orange
* orange@orange-papers.info * * AA and Recovery Cult Debunking * * http://www.Orange-Papers.org/ * * http://forum.orange-papers.info/ * ** "Every great cause begins as a movement, becomes a business, ** and eventually degenerates into a racket." ** == Eric Hoffer ![]()
Date: Sat, March 9, 2013 12:13 am (Answered 12 March 2013) Hello Mr Orange: Someone in my AA group told me about this page, and I am NOT sorry to say that you are a fucking idiot. I am 2 weeks short of my 1 year, and I owe it all to AA. So unless your an alcoholic than shut the fuck up!!!!! Sandra Hello Sandra, Thank you for the letter. Actually, yes, I'm an alcoholic who has 12 years of sobriety now, and I'm very happy about the fact that I stay sober without A.A. And congratulations on your sober time. You are doing it, you know. Nobody is doing it for you. Nobody holds your hand every Saturday night but you. Since you didn't know whether I'm an alcoholic, you obviously haven't read much of my web site, or seen any of the descriptions of my alcoholism and recovery. I just listed all of the autobiographical links in a previous letter, here. Have a good day now. == Orange
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Date: Wed, March 13, 2013 9:45 am (Answered 14 March 2013) May I ask if you are an alcoholic? If so, are you an active alcoholic? because that would explain your misjudgement on your %'s about the many people that have recovered through the fellowship of AA. Not only does it help keep you sober, it sorts your mind out in ways we never thought possible. Our thinking becomes clear, and we learn how to grow again. We meet friends there. And I never thought I could go anywhere and have a good time without booze. I have tried other ways to quit, but AA does work, if you have the dire need or want to quit. Have a good day. Respectfully Sandra Hello again, Sandra, If by "active alcoholic", you mean that I'm drinking alcohol, the answer is, "No, as I said before, I have 12 years of sobriety now." And I do. I even have 12 years off of cigarettes and all other drugs too. And I'm very happy about it. I feel so much better. I feel like I escaped from Hell. Unfortunately, A.A. does not keep people sober or clarify their minds. What you are describing is the combination of the euphoria of your body recovering from alcohol poisoning โ the "Pink Cloud" effect โ and the process of the 12 Steps warping your mind as the brainwashing takes effect. The 12 Steps are really brainwashing, you know. Or maybe you don't know. You should go look at the description of brainwashing as described by Dr. Robert Jay Lifton, Prof. Margaret Thaler Singer, and Dr. Edgar H. Schein, here. Those doctors studied the victims of Chinese Communist brainwashing of American prisoners of war during the Korean War, and they described the mechanics of how it works. The similarity of their descriptions of brainwashing, and the A.A. 12-Step program, is stunning. A.A. does all eight of the things that Dr. Lifton called the essential conditions for brainwashing. The actual effects of staying in A.A. and "Working The Program" are:
I understand your remark, "And I never thought I could go anywhere and have a good time without booze." Yes, that is how addiction keeps a hold on you. It makes you think that your drug of choice is essential for happy living. Please read about The Lizard-Brain Addiction Monster for a full description of how the craving center of your brain will constantly tell you that you need a drink or a drug or a cigarette, or life just isn't worth living. And how it says that, "Just one will be okay," and encourages you to relapse. Happily, both of us have learned that it ain't necessarily so. That enlightenment is not due to doing the occult practices of an old cult religion, which is what the 12 Steps are. (Please click on that link and read about the history of the 12 Steps.) A.A. does not work. They are lying to you when they say that A.A. works great, and "RARELY have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed our path", and all of that. Click these links for much information about the actual A.A. failure rate and dropout rate: here and here and here.
Should you decide that you want to explore some other recovery groups who won't mess with
your mind like that, and who have something more than an old pro-Nazi cult religion, see: And again, congratulations on your year of sobriety, and happy birthday. The first year is the hardest. After that, it gets easier. Good luck with your life now. == Orange
* orange@orange-papers.info * * AA and Recovery Cult Debunking * * http://www.Orange-Papers.org/ * * http://forum.orange-papers.info/ * ** "I therefore claim to show, not how men think in myths, ** but how myths operate in men's minds without their ** being aware of the fact." ** == Claude Lรฉvi-Strauss, The Raw and the Cooked [1964], Overture. ![]()
Date: Tue, March 12, 2013 4:08 pm (Answered 13 March 2013) Marcus Mergett posted in Orange Papers This type or quality of facility is not as uncommon as one might think! Ripoff Report | G & G Holistics Addiction Treatment Center | Complaint Review: 467589 G & G Holistics Addiction Treatment Center โ G&G HOLISTIC CAN BE DANGEROUS TO ONE'S HEALTH AND WELL BEING ! North Miami Beach Florida To comment on this post: Hello Marcus, Oh yeh, not uncommon at all. Thanks for the link. I didn't know about Ripoff Report until now. I have a few items of my own to give them. Nothing as big as this though. Have a good day now. == Orange
* orange@orange-papers.info * * AA and Recovery Cult Debunking * * http://www.Orange-Papers.org/ * * http://forum.orange-papers.info/ * ** Falsehood and fraud grow up in every soil, the product of all climes. ** == Joseph Addison (1672โ1719), English essayist, critic, poet ![]()
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Date: Wed, March 13, 2013 5:35 pm (Answered 13 March 2013) Hello Orange, I don't know if it affects the performance of your site, but three of the Zip file links are broken.
Orange_Papers-imgs102-2012-12-01.zip Thank you for what must be thousands of hours of work that you have put into this amazing site. I now believe that my sobriety was spontaneous remission. I am 15 years sober and consider myself recovered. I no longer attend AA meetings since I was assaulted on October 10, 2011. (My case against the man who assaulted me has finally gone to the State Attorney after 17 months.) AA stopped being a safe haven after that event, and after I finally realized that I was using AA as a spiritual bypass and saw AA for what it truly is โ a cult.
*Don U.* Hello Don, Thank you very much for the bug report. It's fixed. The dates on the files were wrong by a couple of days. If you reload the first page, i.e. menu1.html or index.html, you will see slightly different dates for those files, and you can download them now.
And welcome to freedom.
* orange@orange-papers.info * * AA and Recovery Cult Debunking * * http://www.Orange-Papers.org/ * * http://forum.orange-papers.info/ * ** "Now I know what it's like to be high on life. ** It isn't as good, but my driving has improved." ** == Nina, on "Just Shoot Me", 13 Jan 2006. ![]()
Date: Wed, March 13, 2013 4:54 pm (Answered 14 March 2013) Doug sent you a message.
"Hey, Orange. For a little while now I've been reading you and have also spent some
time on orangepapers. I just read your post on wildlife. I was hoping you could
suggest for me some books on logic and propaganda. Anything else you could suggest
would be appreciated. Thank you.
To reply to this message, follow the link below: Hello Doug, Thanks for the question. Oh, that is actually a tough question. Some of the stuff I learned so long ago that I don't remember where I got it. I think I learned about some Greek teaching deductive and inductive reasoning back in high school... There are a few good books on propaganda techniques and logical fallacies and the workings of the mind listed in the bibliography, here: (Clicking on the name of the book will take you to the book's description in the bibliography.)
If you click on the title of a book, it will take you to the bibliography where you will see a description of the book. The description will give you a good indication of how helpful the book was. Some books were much more interesting than others, some contained more relevant information than others, and some are great classics in their field. And on the Internet, there are several good web sites that list and explain logical fallacies:
Have a good day now. == Orange
* orange@orange-papers.info * * AA and Recovery Cult Debunking * * http://www.Orange-Papers.org/ * * http://forum.orange-papers.info/ * ** "Through clever and constant application of propaganda, people ** can be made to see paradise as hell, and also the other way round, ** to consider the most wretched sort of life as paradise" ** == Adolf Hitler
Date: Thu, March 14, 2013 6:20 pm Doug sent you a message. "I see and sense daily. Thanks again." ![]()
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