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Date: Wed, April 3, 2013 2:15 pm (answered 11 June 2013) http://www.myheritage.com/album-2_0_15338291_15338291/family-tree-photos?fsn=2&page=41 Hi Orange, I got this photo and thought you would be interested. Link โ From the collection of Ernie Galbraith Jr. found online. Oddly, there are no pictures of Dr. Bob or Anne Smith. Not any others of Sue Smith either. They would be key family members, am I right?
Take care, Bill, Lois, Sue Smith 1951 Stepping Stones.jpg 65 k
P.S.: Sorry Orange, I got that wrong. Apparently Ernie Gailbrath remarried and had children. That would be a good reason to not have any photos of the Smiths. I believe that Sue Smith would have been Ernie Jr.'s fathers' ex-wife. Interesting regardless. Avo Hello Avo, Thank you. That is a good find. I'm not sure whether Ernie Jr. was the son of Susan Smith or the second wife; I'll have to check that. I know that Ernie and Susan's first child (maybe only child) was a daughter who got pregnant at 16, and then committed suicide with Ernie's shotgun when she was a very young adult, also killing her own daughter in a double murder-suicide. And Robert Smith Jr's son also committed suicide, so two of Dr. Bob's grandchildren committed suicide. What the heck? It can't be genetic, because Susan was an adopted daughter. Apparently, there was something about Dr. Bob's neurotic way of raising and abusing children that so emotionally crippled his own children that the grandchildren killed themselves. There is much more about that here. Especially see the quote where Dr. Bob's son, Robert Smith Jr., a.k.a. "Smitty", who spent his life in and around A.A. and Al-Anon, talked about "I thought I was a very shallow person, because I didn't seem to be able to love my fellow man." Tragic. Buchmanism is really poisonous. Oh well, have a good day now. == Orange
* orange@orange-papers.info * * AA and Recovery Cult Debunking * * http://www.Orange-Papers.org/ * * ** The biggest truth to face now โ what is probably making me unfunny now ** for the remainder of my life โ is that I don't think people give a damn ** whether the planet goes on or not. It seems to me as if everyone is ** living as members of Alcoholics Anonymous do, day by day. And a few ** more days will be enough. I know of very few people who are dreaming ** of a world for their grandchildren. ** == Kurt Vonnegut ![]()
Date: Wed, June 12, 2013 12:08 am (answered 14 June 2013) have you seen this? Monica http://aamo.info/upload/GSC51/tif/GSC51_300dpi%20capture.pdf
Local copy here: GSC51 (pdf) Hello Monica, Thank you very much for that. That historical document says a lot.
Thanks again for the document. Have a good day now. == Orange
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Date: Mon, June 10, 2013 9:50 pm (answered 15 June 2013) I have a question for the readers of Oranges site.. Are there any alcoholics that were truly addicted to alcohol and simply woke up one day and had their mind "forget" they were alcoholic never to drink again ? Please be honest about your drinking past being a full blown alcoholic in terms of serious, serious, debilitating consumption levels. And I am referring to a total lack of cravings or thoughts of "picking up." I had this strange experience with my serious smoking addiction and being a 2-3 pack a day smoker of Marlboros for 45 years. I failed every smoking program known to mankind, from psychologists to patches to gums and countless sessions of hypnotism. I attempted to quit smoking with serious efforts for almost 40 years. (then one morning I woke up and had "forgotten" about smoking) My quitting alcohol was a 12 year effort in and out the doors of AA while still drinking and I finally got sick enough to quit alcohol 13 years ago. But to be totally honest, I am confused to this day what happened for me to make that decision. I think I am in the category of a spontaneous remission in terms of decision. Like thousands of others I had to stay stopped one day at a time until the cravings went away. I believe that within 50 years we may have medications to help this alcoholic malady see its last days. Then again nothing would surprise me at all. Hello Tom, Contratulations for quitting smoking and drinking. And thanks for an interesting question. I don't have any simple answer to that question. Personally, for me, quitting both alcohol and tobacco was a real fight, and took some determination and will power to quit and stay quit. But I can believe that when someone is done with it, he is just done with it. When you are sick and tired of being sick and tired, then you don't desire it any more. Readers, any experiences there? Have a good day now. == Orange
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Date: Tue, June 11, 2013 9:51 pm (answered 15 June 2013) http://www.orange-papers.info/orange-not_good.html I do respect one thing. Your diligence to your beliefs are relentless. As far as A.A. being a cult, your absolutely wrong, in evidence by the first current, in general defenitons, that are used these days that I could find. And just these 2 points I make will disqualify your defening A.A.as a cult. If need be I can take a random poll and ask 100 people that are strangers if they think A.A. is abnormal or a cult? But that would be stupid. Its a given that A.A. is not abnormal or bizaree. In fact it is about the most normal thing their is for battling Alcohism. And again these are the first defenitons I could find that is realistic in the way society views what a cult is in the general public. Hello David,
And then where is the hierarchy? Where is the guidance from the teaching and guidance coming from the people at the top? Random members volunteer to guide meetings. And in general. I could not tell you the names of chairman of the last 10 meetings I went to. There is no one "at the top". The people that are in the administration etc. I have never even seen or heard of. I have never studied the names of them. If I had to go to the administration I would have to research and ask questions to where "the hierarchy" is. AND THEIR IS NO BULLSHIT MIND CONTROL ETC. Get real orange papers. I just unbiasedly researched this. It is the first thing that I saw That looked of intrest to try to validate in your paper. Whether a group is a cult is not solely determined by the heirarchy. A hierarchical power structure is just one of a hundred cult characteristics. Nevertheless, A.A. has a hierarchy, even two of them. The first is the pyramid of sponsors that goes up to Bill Wilson or Dr. Bob or Clancy Imusland. The second is the pyramid of Intergroups and Area Intergroups and Conference and GSO and AAWS, topped off by the offices in the Interchurch Building in New York City, with the President of AAWS and General Manager of the GSO being the bosses (or boss). Greg Muth held both positions. Yes there is mind control. Read Dr. Robert Jay Lifton's Eight Conditions for Thought Reform, that is, for brainwashing, and see how they resemble the practices in the 12 Steps. A.A. is not considered "abnormal" or "bizaree".... It is far far from that. It is normal. It is what is known as the first thing available for alcoholism, secondary to treatment. Bad logic. You are using the passive voice, a standard propaganda trick where things get said or thought or believed by invisible people. Who does not consider A.A. "abnormal" or "bizaree" [sic.]? I do. And so do hundreds of people who have written to me. Again, read the A.A. Horror Stories for many examples of that.
DEFENITON OF CULT: The word cult in current popular usage is a pejorative term for a new religious movement or other group whose beliefs or practices are considered abnormal or bizarre by the larger society.[1] Yes. DEFENITION OF A CULT โ Any group which has a pyramid type authoritarian leadership structure with all teaching and guidance coming from the person/persons at the top. The group will claim to be the only way to God; Nirvana; Paradise; Ultimate Reality; Full Potential, Way to Happiness etc, and will use thought reform or mind control techniques to gain control and keep their members. This definition covers cults within all major world religions, along with those cults which have no OBVIOUS reomligious base such as commercial, educational and psychological cults. That describes A.A. very well. Ya see that is what you are MISSING and have to include. The oddity of cults. Cults come and go. Why dont you get realsitic and use the standard interpretations of society and how they define a "cult"...And the way society sees it. On the contrary, I do. Why don't you read the Cult Test, and get a more detailed description of a cult? A.A. passes the Cult Test with a very high score. Alcoholics Anonymous is a cult. The evidence is overwhelming. Please state where all your evidence and all these figures are coming from and reference them. If you even want me to read your paper with an open mind with one eye even open. I can make shit up really really good. Your whole writing has all these things you state, but where is it coming from? I have already done that. Read the entire Cult Test, both the questions and answers. It is all referenced. There are footnotes and quotes from authoritive books and links everywhere. (Note that, when you are reading the Cult Test, you can flip back and forth between the questions and answers for A.A. by clicking on the number of the question and answer.) If you don't like my answers and my scoring, go ahead and put A.A. to the test and score A.A. on those 100 questions yourself. Let's see what you come up with. Then you can read the bibliography, starting here, to see the list of books. Also, all of the statements in the file that you referenced, http://www.orange-papers.info/orange-not_good.html, have links to supporting evidence and documentation. When you see a statement that interests you, or with which you disagree, click on it to get more information. Have a good day now. == Orange
* orange@orange-papers.info * * AA and Recovery Cult Debunking * * http://www.Orange-Papers.org/ * ** ** "Wanting to believe is perhaps the most powerful dynamic ** initiating and sustaining cult-like behavior." ** The Wrong Way Home: Uncovering the Patterns of Cult Behavior in ** American Society, Arthur J. Deikman, M.D., page 137. ![]()
Date: Tue, June 11, 2013 9:05 pm (answered 15 June 2013) Been in and out of AA a bit. Had a year and a half. I seem to be turning a stone and being able to have one or two drinks and stopping. AA said that's not possible. Do you find any redeemable qualities in aa? Feels like a mind fuck for sure. Enjoy your writing
Jon Hello Jon, Thanks for the compliments and the question. Can you "just turn a stone"? Yes, for sure. Lots of people just outgrow their bad habits and their addictions. It happens all of the time. The fancy name for that is, "Maturing out of addictive behavior." And it sounds like it happened to you. Congratulations.
Yes, A.A. is dead wrong when they say that is impossible. They just don't want to admit that you don't need them. And yes, I also consider A.A. to be a mind fuck. It's just an old pro-Nazi cult religion from the nineteen-thirties, not a cure for alcohol addiction. Have a good day and a good life now. == Orange
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Date: Wed, June 12, 2013 2:38 am (answered 15 June 2013) Andre P. posted in Anti โ 12 step programs A gem by Id Powers โ I just love this one!!
Hello Andre, Thanks for the essay. He has a lot of good points. And you know, after careful consideration of the facts, I really don't want what Bill had. Or Dr. Bob. Heck, there is increasing evidence that they relapsed repeatedly. I received letters where it looks like Bill Wilson got hospitalized for alcohol poisoning in Akron when he was supposed to have years of sobriety, and Dr. Bob had to go visit Bill Wilson in Bedford Hills to stop drinking again, years after he supposedly had his last drink. Oh well, have a good day now. == Orange
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Date: Wed, June 12, 2013 10:17 am (answered 15 June 2013) I can only tell you about my own experience with the 12 steps. One, as a Christian, I find that the 12 steps dovetail with the Bible and the teachings of Jesus. I did not have to embrace syncretism. I believe Bills intention in allowing one to define God as they see fit is so that those without faith can still use the program. By the way, even if they look to the group for their strength, it cant hurt. The people I have met in recovery are typically very supportive and non judgmental. In most every group there are one or several old timers with a ton of wisdom. Hello again, Jim, Another way to explain Bill's intention is to notice that Dr. Frank Buchman invented all of that fake theology with the intention of recruiting people from all religions. Buchman considered everybody fair game for induction into his cult. And Bill Wilson copied that, and did the same. Of course Bill did not explain how atheists could have a non-existent "god" performing miracles for them on demand. And yes, using the A.A. group as one's "G.O.D." has hurt a lot of people. It is also blatant idolatry. No matter whether you "had to embrace syncretism", A.A. does. Any religion that says that you can worship anything from a doorknob to a bedban to a group of drunks as your god is obviously not right. You spend a lot of time anaylizing Bill Wilsons writings and other hand picked quotes from recovery literature. But I wonder if you have ever personally tried actually participating for a good length of time in any kind of 12 step recovery program to see what it is like? Absolutely not. That is the standard come-on for most cults. "Just do our mind-bending brainwashing practices for a year, and you will see that it is all true." If you do their practices for a year, you will be so brainwashed that you believe whatever they say. No thanks. The 12 Steps are psychologically harmful. They even drive people to depression and relapse and suicide. No way am I going to do that to myself. I won't drink Jim Jones' koolaid, either. Speaking of which, why don't you read about Dr. Robert Jay Lifton's description of Chinese Communist brainwashing, and notice the similarity to the 12 Steps? Look here: Dr. Robert Jay Lifton's Eight Conditions for Thought Reform, that is, for brainwashing. Two, I have attended AA meetings, Al Anon meetings, Celebrate Recovery meetings, one SLAA meeting, and many ACA meetings. I have met people in AA who did not quit drinking through AA but regularly attend meetings because they find it helpful. I have also met several people who have been in it for 20 years plus and did quit drinking through AA. I dont have research on how many chips were bought by AA in the state of Texas, but I have met a lot of people who have been helped by a 12 step program. As an ACoA, I have been able to see some major transformation in my life due to reading books about codependency, working through the steps using the ACA workbook, attending meetings, talking to my sponsor, and through the grace and love of God. That is interesting, you are obviously well-indoctrinated, but does not say anything about whether the A.A. program actually makes people quit drinking alcohol, or what the success rate is, or how Frank Buchman's goofy heretical religion could possibly work as a cure for alcohol abuse. Three, the 12 step programs that I have visited could not be defined as a cult. A cult always operates based on control, usually issuing from one person. 12 step recovery programs as they exist today, typically do not have any leader. Whether or not you attend meetings, do the step work, give money, have a sponsor, talk to your sponsor, quit completely, rejoin, etc is all totally voluntary. No one in the program has ever attempted to tell me what to do or what I must believe to continue being part of the group. I am free to disagree with anything I want, particpate to the degree I want, or totally drop out. That does not fit the definition of a cult. Yes, A.A. is a cult. Please read the Cult Test, both the questions, and the answers for A.A. Alcoholics Anonymous scores high as a cult. The fact that the crazy corrupt leader of A.A., Bill Wilson, is now dead, does not make A.A. suddenly stop being a cult.
You are mistaken about the "voluntary" nature of A.A. First off, many people are forced into A.A. The previous two triennial surveys showed that almost two-thirds of the membership had been coerced, sentenced, pressured, blackmailed, forced, or shoved into A.A. Look here. Then there is the issue of informed consent. People who have been lied to and fooled into believing that they will die if they leave A.A. are not there voluntarily. And people who are there to get a piece of paper signed are not there voluntarily. You seem concerned about the harm that could be happening from people following the 12 steps. I am equally concerned for the small number of people who read your writings, that you might discourage people who really could be helped. I understand your method of quitting an addiction and I am not opposed to it. But I dont understand your need to attempt to discourage people from something that you have little personal knowledge. Much of what you write is not based on what is really happening in 12 step meetings around the country. A.A. does not have a program for quitting drinking. A.A. has an old pro-Nazi cult religion from the nineteen-thirties that Bill Wilson sold as a quack cure for alcoholism. That is why I criticize it. A.A. harms a great many people. Read the A.A. Horror Stories for many examples of that. Then look at the actual results of 12-Step treatment:
Furthermore, much of what you write is skewed because you already had your conclusion decided before you wrote. You offer mostly examples that support your preformed conclusion and ignore so many obvious examples that you are blinded to. Your research is biased and is not based on accepted social science research methodology. Wrong. I did not start off with the conclusion that A.A. was bad. I started off thinking that A.A. was a very good thing, the biggest and best self-help group in the USA. I found out different from seeing what was really going on. Read the introduction to the web site. You are painting with a very broad brush when you accuse me of prejudice and biased research. Please pick out specific items where you think that I am wrong, and tell what you think the truth is, and come up with some real hard evidence that I am wrong and you are right. I research very carefully. Speaking of facts and research, since you have several years in A.A., you should be able to answer these simple questions:
If you can't even say what the A.A. cure rate is, then you don't have much of an argument for saying that A.A. is a good thing. Have a good day now. == Orange
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Date: Wed, June 12, 2013 6:31 pm (answered 17 May 2013) Once again you made a statement that alcohol is and always has been extremely addictive!... and history states alcohol has existed in society for as much as 10,000 years! so by your statement and history the entire world should be completely addicted to it by now.. Hello again, Randy, That is ridiculously bad logic. First off, not all people drink alcohol. Then only a small percentage of the drinkers drink so much that they get addicted to alcohol. Then the addicted alcoholics die prematurely, so the number of addicted alcoholics does not accumulate over the centuries. and that it can only be cured completely by a psychologist! I never said any such thing. Where did you get that? What I have said repeatedly is that Do It Yourself is the most effective recovery program in the world. thing is I read your horror stories of some people in AA, yet you fail to state the obvious and that is, any and all history portrays these very same horrors through the history of mankind they did not start in AA That is a very lame argument. The fact that there are bad people in other organizations, like the Communist Party or the Nazi Party or the Ku Klux Klan, and in other countries, does not make it okay for A.A. to treat people badly. Two wrongs don't make a right. as a matter of fact, the hippy movement of the 60s have much worse horror stories. or was it a couple of renegade AAs that started the Hippy movement. And my own simple observation as I watched all that so called free love turn to free hate and pure greed, many of those same people now run the largest companies in the US and have no qualms to abusing the girls or boys around them as proven throughout history, nor would they have any dismay driving this country into complete ruin because no one listened in the 60s. You are pushing a huge sweeping generalization without any specific facts. I lived on a hippy commune in northern New Mexico for years, and yes, I saw all of the problems, and I saw the end of a dream, but I also saw a lot of good people, but none of those people, good or bad, are running big corporations now. No, the big evil corporations, and the government agencies, are being run by the straight kids who went to the Harvard Business School and Yale (like George W. Bush), not by the kids who lived on the communes. you say AA is a cult yet all that can be proven is that regardless of history there will always be someone that despises someone else. from sticks and stone too nukes. whom so ever has the greatest weapon or resource has the final opinion or they will kick it down another's throat. That attempt at avoiding the facts is just the propaganda trick of setting low expectations, as in, "People are bad all over the world. How can you expect A.A. to be any better?". Yes, there are bad people everywhere in the world, but that does not make it okay for felonious creeps in A.A. to shove an old cult religion on sick people as a quack cure for alcohol addiction. Remember that A.A. was supposedly a wonderful recovery program that Bill Wilson got from God. no matter how many pretty words we use the ugly truth will prevail..... Now that is a very good description of Alcoholics Anonymous. The pretty words that they publish cannot hide the truth about what A.A. is now. Have a good day. == Orange
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