Letters CCCLXX
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Date: Fri, September 27, 2013 12:41 am (answered 29 September 2013) Dear Orange, I am German, I can read and understand your orange-papers perfectly, but I am not good in writing in English. I hope you can understand my story. I had a husband. We knew each other for 35 years, we married 1998, our son was born in 1998. In the year 2004 my husband started to go to meetings of AA. He wanted to be an alcoholic in recovery (without having been a real Alcoholic before β he just wanted a cult that took control over his whole life). He spent a lot of time in online-meetings. He found himself a sponsor. This sponsor took control. In the following years, my husband stopped his lifelong friendships with ordinary people from our daily life. He chose new friends or the sponsor chose for him. My husband was not able to make decisions or choices about his business and family life. He always had to ask his sponsor or the other AA-people. He ruined his business as a cabinet maker / joiner. He left me and our son. He was not able to see reality, especially his financial, economic situation. All he wanted was: to be a full-time recovering alcoholic. He called these people his friends. But you cannot find friends, when you see them only in the evenings in a meeting, where everybody is telling just stories. To be friends, you need the experience of seeing somebody in his everyday life. In the end my husband dropped dead in his joiner's workshop β I think he knew somehow that he had completely ruined his whole life. That happened in march 2012. I waited more than one year, then I asked myself if this tragical story is finished for me. I found out that it isn't. 2010 I wrote a warning letter to that sponsor and to AA Germany. I told them about the danger. I knew my husband well enough to know about the risks. Afterwards I found the reaction letter of AA Germany: they agreed with the sponsor, that I, the wife, should attend Al-Anon-meetings, and they had not made any mistake. The sponsor misunderstood my warning letter β oh she's just a jealous wife .. There exist a few very interesting letters and I am thinking about legal steps and talking to the newspapers. The 12steps lobby in Germany does exist, but I think it is not so powerful like it is in the USA. Thank you for your good work! Sibylle Hello Sibylle, Thank you for the letter. I'm sorry to hear about your suffering. I'm adding this letter to the list of A.A. Horror Stories. What you have described is just so classic. Taking total control of a person's decision-making is just standard cult behavior β it's in the Cult Test. And people who voluntarily submit to such supervision are fleeing from freedom. I think either Eric Hoffer or Eric Fromm wrote a book "Flight From Freedom", about people who seek escape from freedom. I shall have to make another attempt to find it. Their reaction to your letter is also typical. They cannot believe that they did anything wrong. It's unthinkable. They believe that their group and their teachings are always right, and you are always wrong. Yes, it's a cult. You are right that the A.A. lobby in Germany is not as powerful as it is in the USA. And A.A. would be even less popular in Germany if more people knew the true history of A.A., like that the cult religion that became A.A. was created by a renegade Lutheran minister, Dr. Frank Nathan Daniel Buchman, who thanked Heaven for giving us Adolf Hitler. And neither of the founders of A.A. in the USA β Bill Wilson, Dr. Robert Smith, or Clarence Snyder β quit A.A. in protest when Dr. Buchman went to Nuremberg Nazi Party rallies and Sieg-Heiled Adolf Hitler, and praised Hitler and Heinrich Himmler. All that those three founders did to create Alcoholics Anonymous was rename the alcoholics' branch of Frank Buchman's cult religion to "Alcoholics Anonymous" (Clarence Snyder made up that name), and change a few words, like changing "sin" to "alcohol". Instead of Buchman's followers supposedly being defeated by sin and powerless over it, A.A. followers were supposedly "defeated by alcohol" and powerless over it. We discussed that before in a previous letter, here: "the "benevolent" support group AA has its roots in the Nazi regime." The story of Matthias getting sued by A.A. in Germany for producing his own German inexpensive translation of the old out-of-copyright first edition of the Big Book is also enlightening:
Yes, the German A.A. is just as corrupt as the American organization. Have a good day and a good life now. == Orange
* orange@orange-papers.info * * AA and Recovery Cult Debunking * * http://www.Orange-Papers.org/ * * ** The less justified a man is in claiming excellence for his ** own self, the more ready he is to claim all excellence for ** his nation, his religion, his race, or his holy cause. ** A man is likely to mind his business when it is worth ** minding. When it is not, he takes his mind off his own ** meaningless affairs by minding other people's business. ** == Eric Hoffer, The True Believer * ** Faith in a holy cause is to a considerable extent ** a substitute for the lost faith in ourselves. ** == Eric Hoffer ![]()
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Date: Sun, September 29, 2013 6:05 pm (answered 1 October 2013) Hi Orange,
I know that you have covered the cult aspects of AA incredibly well on the
website but I thought that this article on cults would be a good addition
to an already great resource. I see from the letters section that your are using Baclofen. I just wondered if you knew that Baclofen has been approved for the treatment of alcoholism in France and there is lots of talk on the web of it being very helpful for cocaine dependence.
Also, recently the NIAAA reported on positive reports for Ondansetron for
alcohol dependence based on studies by our old friend Dr. Bankole Johnson. I wonder how the research into Higher Powers is coming along? I've heard a rumor that they're going to have an injectable Higher Power very soon! :-)
Keep on keepin' on Orange, Hello again, iamnotastatistic, Thanks for all of the information. Yes, I ran across the information about some doctors using Baclofen to treat alcohol abuse. The dosage that they are using is like 10 or 20 times as much as I'm getting. I don't know what that would feel like. The dose that I'm getting is so small that I'm not sure if it's doing anything at all. I just assume that it must be taking the edge off of muscle tremors and twitches. Still, the idea of using a muscle relaxant to treat alcohol abuse is an interesting one. I'll have to check out those other two links. Have a good day now. == Orange
* orange@orange-papers.info * * AA and Recovery Cult Debunking * * http://www.Orange-Papers.org/ * ** The future does not come from before to meet us, ** but comes streaming up from behind over our heads. ** == Rahel ![]()
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Date: Sun, September 29, 2013 8:28 pm (answered 1 October 2013) I think all that you wrote about recognizing cults and their.... ways.... Is just a remarkable accomplishment and read.... truly and thank you. I don't think I can look at the mainstream... whomever or whatever.... the same way ever again. I like this guy, Stansberry of Daily Crux.... is, for me, out of the box thinking like you. Matt
Thanks for the interview. Now that is very interesting. I agree with Richard Maybury's basic premise of the American Empire coming apart and falling down. And I agree that the so-called "leaders" are really men who are addicted to power. They believe that they must run the world or the world will run them. (There might even be some truth to that.) Something that Maybury did not mention is the fact that very rich and powerful men own and run the corporations that make the decisions to dominate impoverished foreign countries and extract their raw materials and pay little for them. Much of the American wealth was actually taken that way. I disagree with how Richard Maybury downplays oil. Petroleum is absolutely essential to our industrial civilization and without it, nothing works right. Oil is both a chemical feed stock and an energy source. Without oil, it will all come to a screeching halt. And the world is running out of oil. We are just fresh out of dinosaurs (and Jurassic vegetation). We use oil as the raw material for everything from plastics to medicines to insecticides and fertilizers to grow our food. Then we use it as fuel to move the food into the cities. Almost everything that moves is powered by oil. (Coal converted into electricity powers only a few trolley cars and subway trains, and a handful of electric family cars.) We even use oil as the energy that builds other forms of energy, like nuclear and solar. Diesel powers the bulldozers that dig the uranium ore, and the trucks that drive it to the refinery, which is also petroleum-powered. Then more petroleum-powered vehicles carry the finished fuel rods to the reactor, which was also built with petroleum power. Extremely-highly-refined chemicals and solvents that were made from petroleum are used to process silicon which makes the purified silicon wafers that become microcomputers and silicon solar cells. And the machines which make silicon wafers into integrated circuits were also built with petroleum energy and parts made with more petroleum. Without oil, none of that happens. Around 1998 to 2000, the price of oil was hovering in the $10 to $14 a barrel range. Now it's in the $100 to $140 range. That is ten times more expensive. Our economy and our industrial civilization were built on the basis of cheap oil. The highway system, the automotive industry, the division of cities into inner core and outer suburbia, all depend on cheap oil. The mass production of food depends on oil, and transporting it into the cities depends on oil. The railroads and airlines depend on cheap oil. Expensive oil is bleeding the lifeblood out of the system. So how is any of this relevant to the Orange Papers? Well, for starters, I find Richard Maybury's descriptions of men addicted to power to be accurate. They totally crave power and they are in denial about it. They will do crazy things, even suicidal things, to continue to feed their addiction, which they call "the American way of life". They rationalize their behavior and even consider it virtuous. They minimize and deny the problem, and insist that they don't need to change their ways. They even insist that they are doing the right thing, as their lives fall apart. And as they harm others. This is also relevant to the Orange Papers because we all live in this crazy world that they have made. I don't see much joy in getting unaddicted to alcohol, tobacco, and drugs, only to freeze and starve in the dark. Me, I keep an ax and a bowsaw in the closet. And I have plenty of pocket knives and sharpening stones. Now maybe that's just because I lived on a hippie commune, and I'm familiar with that lifestyle. I can see going back to chopping wood and gardening. That lifestyle is workable, at least for me. Have a good day now. == Orange
* orange@orange-papers.info * * AA and Recovery Cult Debunking * * http://www.Orange-Papers.org/ * * ** People unfit for freedom β who cannot do much with it ** β are hungry for power. The desire for freedom is an attribute ** of a "have" type of self. It says: leave me alone and ** I shall grow, learn, and realize my capacities. The desire for ** power is basically an attribute of a "have not" type of self. ** == Eric Hoffer [ Link here = http://www.orange-papers.info/orange-letters370.html#Matt2 ]
Date: Tue, October 1, 2013 4:56 pm (answered 4 October 2013) I thawt you'd like Stansberry.... he's on Wikopedia as a sort of bad guy, but the Wall Street Journal (and others) thawt otherwise. Cutting edge on an interesting level.... and I have bawt some of his suggested stocks (that have done ok). I think he mite have woken me up to [practicing] cults as well. However, what you've written is 'mo powerful stuff... parallel.. I lean twards conservative, but I don't know anymore..... both parties seem to be fascist.... but fk them. From my Boston 'daze" at BU's College of Basic Studies..... well, the info given was placed and learned [enuff] in the good way, but not understood or grocked by me at the time. Now it seems to be, well, the chix have come home to roost. It is odd tho... once the snake has bitcha, it does no good to charm [the snake}. I like snakes, but I get the meaning of being bitten by something poisonous. Anyway, we do not live long enuff to recognize patterns... political or otherwise.... that harm us. Your work is very important to me. Thank you, Matt Hi again, Matt, Oh yes, I found it very interesting. Thank you. And thanks for the compliment. So have a good day now. == Orange
* orange@orange-papers.info * * AA and Recovery Cult Debunking * * http://www.Orange-Papers.org/ * ** "The history of the rise and fall of empires teaches us that ** it is when their own citizens finally lose faith in the virtue of ** infinite war and permanent occupations that the system enters into ** retreat." ** == Tariq Ali [The next letter from Matt_J is here.] ![]()
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Date: Thu, October 3, 2013 9:57 am (answered 4 October 2013) Hi Terry, I just saw your photo of "the pepper" from your garden in the most recent letters. That looks to me like what we used to call "ground cherries." There is a round seed inside that is juicy and makes great preserves. However, the plant stem and leaves don't quite look like the ones I knew back in the Blue Ridge Mtns. that my grandmother's made into preserves, or quite like the plants we have here in the Rockies that are similar. The shell is paper-like and fluffs off in the wind sometimes. Deer are fond of them when ripe out here. I once looked up ground cherries and think I recall there are many varieties in the US. Anyway, hope your pain is better, and congrats on the great work you continue to do and number 13. I just passed 32 years last month. Sober by Choice Hello Sober by Choice, Thanks for the note. Wow. 32 years. That must feel like an eternity. That's been so long that you might have trouble remembering when you drank. "Did I really drink, or did I just imagine it in the previous century?" (Just kidding.) About the "peppers": I'll have to check that out. Whatever they are, they are supposed to be good to eat. Last spring, some people were giving away some surplus garden plants, and I got tomatoes and "peppers". They didn't know what kind of peppers they were. I assumed that they must be either green chili peppers or green bell peppers. Or maybe little red-hot peppers. But whatever these plants are, they are not any of those. Well, the tomatoes were really tomatoes, and they are good and tasty. All of the plants flourished in my back yard. Not a single one died. Now I need to figure out what to do with these "peppers". Have a good day now. == Orange
* orange@orange-papers.info * * AA and Recovery Cult Debunking * * http://www.Orange-Papers.org/ * ** Give fools their gold, and knaves their power; ** Let fortune's bubbles rise and fall; ** Who sows a field, or trains a flower, ** Or plants a tree, is more than all. ** == Whittier, A Song of Harvest ![]()
Date: Mon, September 30, 2013 10:29 am (answered 1 October 2013) Hello, Orange. You never replied to the forwarded message below. :) But never mind. I would like to add another "argument" that addictive voice (lizard brain) makes in order to consume again. It's this: β You'll have to consume in the future, so you might as well consume now. Example:
I hope this is useful to your website!
Thanks,
That's it! Thanks! Have a nice day, Hello Mario, Thank you for the letter and another logical fallacy. I'll have to add the "Nirvana Fallacy" to the Propaganda Tricks web page. The reason that I didn't respond to it before is because I never saw it before. I don't know what happened to it. But I've got it now. Thanks for sending it again. I had that Lizard Brain thought listed this way:
Aren't you tired of torturing yourself? Why do you persist in denying yourself life's little pleasures? Why do you persist in putting yourself through all of this pain and all of these cravings? You know you will relapse sooner or later anyway, so why not make it right now, so you can feel good right now? And also,
Oh heck, you know you don't have the power to really stay sober for years, so why bother trying? Oh what a devious little monster that Lizard Brain is. Have a good day. == Orange
* orange@orange-papers.info * * AA and Recovery Cult Debunking * * http://www.Orange-Papers.org/ * ** "I therefore claim to show, not how men think in myths, ** but how myths operate in men's minds without their ** being aware of the fact." ** == Claude LΓ©vi-Strauss, The Raw and the Cooked [1964], Overture. ![]()
Date: Thu, October 3, 2013 4:14 pm (answered 7 October 2013) hi all, will you post this again. I still think there are people out there who have no idea. I'm going to post it once a month till my film is released! Its a tough film to make but someone has to do it. Thanks for all your support.
Thanks http://petitions.moveon.org/sign/stop-courts-from-sending-1 Okay Monica, Your wish is granted. Good luck with your movie. And have a good day now. == Orange
* orange@orange-papers.info * * AA and Recovery Cult Debunking * * http://www.Orange-Papers.org/ * ** Some people want to know the truth, and some don't. ** He who has ears to hear, let him hear. ** He who has eyes to see, let him see. ![]()
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Date: Thu, October 3, 2013 4:34 pm (answered 7 October 2013) I am at a point that I would like to put a lot of this behind me. I wish there was some thing I could do to help the people caught up in this. From what I can see, people just move on. I think that is why there are not to many people against AA on the sites and forums. I think that is why AA gets away with it's bs. From what I could see the people in the program for the most part have serious mental health problems and personality disorders. And then there are those that have had those types of people in there lives feel right at home with them. I do not know what to do except to just get away. The thing that tells me that some thing is wrong is when I feel drained. I am putting a lot of effort in and getting nothing back. It is very delusional, you think some thing is going on, but it is all in your head. That is how the person with NPD does it. They get you to do all the work. That is what the 12 step program is all about. Diabolical, if I may say so. Hello Subhuti, Yes. Just yes. You've got it. You understand. And I agree that just getting away is the best solution to the problem. You just don't need problems like that in your life. So have a good day now. == Orange
* orange@orange-papers.info * * AA and Recovery Cult Debunking * * http://www.Orange-Papers.org/ * ** When some men were feeling grandiose and bombastic, they said, ** "Let us build gigantic towers that reach up into the sky." ** And they did. Then they looked up and said, "Look at how ** mighty we are. Look at how big our buildings are." ** But when people climbed up to the tops of the towers and ** looked down, they said, "Look at how tiny those people are. ** They look like a bunch of ants." ![]()
Date: Fri, October 4, 2013 1:20 am (answered 7 October 2013) More twelve step propaganda. They never rest. Oooh, my compulsive sexual behaviour is a disease, so I don't even need to try to exercise personal responsibility and self-control. What a self-serving crock. It's sad to see good actors debasing themselves with this rubbish. http://www.irishtimes.com/culture/film/film-review-thanks-for-sharing-1.1549141 Hello again, Tom, Thanks for the link. Just this line alone is hilarious. It sounds like a droll satire:
"...attendees at a self-help group as they fight courageously with an inability to keep mickies in pants." Heck, it's much funnier than members of Overeaters Anonymous courageously fighting donuts. I notice that the review just slams the movie:
... this poorly written, valiantly acted film allows no such escape from psycho-baloney. It's like watching a horror film that demands the viewer actually believe in the existence of ghosts. Where will this obfuscation of responsibility end? Well somebody has his head screwed on straight. Have a good day now. == Orange
* orange@orange-papers.info * * AA and Recovery Cult Debunking * * http://www.Orange-Papers.org/ * * ** When I "graduated" from the so-called "treatment program" at the local ** "treatment center" (because the health insurance funding ran out), they ** congratulated me for my continuous sobriety and for "achieving the goals" ** of the treatment program. That starkly contrasts with the A.A. dogma ** that says that you are powerless over alcohol. If I were really powerless, ** then I couldn't have chosen sobriety, and I couldn't have accomplished ** anything. The so-called treatment is contradictory: They demand that you ** go to 12-Step meetings and get a sponsor and join the 12-Step cult ** religion, but they also demand that you act like you have the situation ** totally under your own control, and abstain from drinking or drugging ** as a matter of choice. ![]()
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Date: Fri, October 4, 2013 9:18 am (answered 7 October 2013) Dear Orange, Again, I have more crap I wish to dump. I like hearing what you have to say. I've been thinking how the AA religion brainwashed me. After reading accounts and also going to your (the Orange) site reading how cults operate, presently for me, any widely held and read dogmatic scripture or otherwise that says this right way will get you results (to heaven) or this wrong way gets you to hell.... *plucks my nerves*! Presently, I'm pondering how to get over three decades of AA cult thinking. I drink too much, know that, and now begin to understand I can change that if I want..... but after three decades of doom-thinkin, its gonna take some effort and time. I'm one of those people who needs other people to help me out of a hole, but I don't know who to trust β given what I've been reading recently. I just read a list of Major Areas of Post-cult Adjustments. I'm hearing I need to do some cult deprogramming and wondering how one goes about that? Too, and basically, all this info is aimed at people who are self actuated, that is, they can determine what is right or wrong for them. I never was very good at that. Thru AA, it was easily hammered home that I don't know what's good for me, I am powerless.... not only over an incurable a disease, but I'm a very bad person too, and if I don't follow their program, I'm gonna die of all of the above.... via the lack of a "spiritual" (religious) program of recovery (AA). At this point, I feel bad, but at least I know I'm not bad. I'm more daunted and confused than anything else. Somehow, I needta turn three decades of overlearned prophecy and lingering dogma around.... and I don't exactly know how.... nor can I completely fathom what the other side of that damn " AA prophecy" looks like? And, what the hell am I getting myself into this time? Is this another scam? What has held me together for many years is a Bible parable about how God separates the wheat from the chaff. God keeps the wheat and the chaff goes in the fire. I thawt this meant that God throws sinners into the fire (hell) and the others (if any) went to heaven. What I now understand it to mean is that God takes each individual and separates what fear-based reasoning and behavior is over-learned and absorbed while here on Earth β and throws all that into the fire. What is left must be the opposite of fear β Love. I imagine there is no recognition of self anymore.... that all our addictions and mean shit we did in life, etc.... God throws that corruption into the fire, forgotten, gone. What is left is who or what we really are..... energy of some sort? I think this happens even to the likes of Adolf Hitler. This, of course, goes against the tenets of human thinking. After death, bad people should be punished... in, preferably, an inferno. Is this the design God, who has better shit to do, would make to keep people acting nice while alive on planet Earth? I don't think so. Only humans could dream this dogma up on a massive enough scale that its believed all over the world. Like AA, it doesn't work.... just the opposite in my opinion. However, it appears to me the threat of hell does work well for control freaks, those who want things run their way, and only their way. The only hell I know about is the one here on Earth because of them.... and, as it occurs to me, and tho I am but a mere victim, I include myself due to my own ignorance and stupidity. After all, down here, we all draw from the same pool of ignorance. I pray that after death, there is nothing terrestrially trauma-influenced anymore. Its all good (total no recall).... and certainly not the harps and clouded heaven or woeful-souls in hell crap we're lead to believe. Mark Twain got that right. Matt Hello Matt, Thanks for the letter. Your description of "purification by fire" reminds me of the process of purification of the mind that the Buddhists describe as happening in meditation or death. They also occasionally use the fire image. The individual personality is gradually burned away, leaving only pure awareness, without a personal history or a list of good deeds and sins. By the way, do you have a link for that "list of Major Areas of Post-cult Adjustments"? I'm curious. Have a good day now. == Orange
* orange@orange-papers.info * * AA and Recovery Cult Debunking * * http://www.Orange-Papers.org/ * ** The spiritual virtue of a sacrament is like light, ** although it passes among the impure, it is not polluted. ** == Saint Augustine (354 β 430 A.D.)
UPDATE: 2013.11.06: That is a page by none other than Janja Lalich, Ph.D, who also co-wrote a bunch of books about cults with Prof. Margaret Thaler Singer of University of California at Berkeley, who was a reknowned expert on cults and brainwashing. (Look here and here.) ![]()
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